Personal, Professional, Reflecting, Why

Hello, 2026


As the first month of the year winds toward a closing, I cannot help but reflect on how much gratefulness I have in my heart.

We are here. We wake up each day with a new opportunity and a fresh start.

I really enjoyed a two-week holiday as a beautiful personal equinox from 2025 to 2026. I spent time in reflection, relaxation, and did some prioritizing and organizing inside and out.

During that time, many people will set new year’s resolutions. You know the good old lose weight, travel more, spend more time with friends and family. This year, I knew I wanted to be determined. Determined to stay happy, healthy, and whole, inside and out. I began building boundaries around my thoughts, my heart, and event my actions. You see I’m a problem-solver, let me save the day, kind of girl, but those around me need to know how to survive with or without me. My child is a beautiful adult finding her way in live and college. My staff are maturing and growing, that comes with both beauty and trials. It is in my nature to want to carry every burden and solve every issue, but they have so many good ideas inside ofo them too.

I have made other personal commitments and walked into the new year with “intentionally-determined” as my objective for the year.


Did the chaos around me stop

Kind of. It was very entertaining to see the world come flying back into my life when daily non-home life resumed, but it didn’t feel personal anymore, so I just tried to stay neutral in all things. It was return to work and jump into walk-ins, as you all may remember, I’m just a sucker for! I love helping students navigate our complex processes and systems. I love problem-solving with advisors and campus stakeholders about complex issues. I often times reference inspector-gadget in my thoughts (I try not to mention him out loud too often anymore, it dates me) because I love the investigative process of following the data thread through admission, documentation processing, any number of status updates and changes. Oh, it’s fun! I’m a complete nerd for it.

It is really one of about two times a semester or academic year that I get to really directly interact with the student body and boy do I miss it and love it! I cannot even explain how much I still know and believe that my career change from medical office staff to university staff was a transformative shift to the purpose for my life. I love what we do. I believe in every single step of the process and the collaboration and coordination it takes along the way.

Has peace spread across the land

Not even close. Our office has been impacted by so many losses and personal traumas as we stepped into the new year. Team members moved on, team members experienced personal loss, the office culture is still not unified or healthy in many ways, but is absolutely inspirational in its teamwork, collaboration, and healing in other ways. It’s just this duplicity of being right on the cusp of some positive shift, when disruption comes. I’m looking back on September 2025 blog posts and recognizing, this is another area I need to be intentionally determined about this year.

Upcoming invitation to share innovative ideas

Next week our division is invited to share any innovative ideas about the upcoming incoming freshman cohort of students.

After walk-ins I feel like my heart is screaming about how complicated and complex our university system is to anyone outside of it and most of those inside too. We become so blind to how complex our processes and procedure are to students. They grasp for any knowledgeable and helpful sounding person that will guide them through those steps. Some well-intentioned people give them invalid information and they become even more frustrated and confused.

I believe that the University should invest in campus-wide onboarding and training programs for every level of staff and faculty depending on roles and responsibilities. I believe that a unified training process would ensure that administrative assistants to department chairs would have access and knowledge on available resources, departmental connections, and university policies. There is no university training based on user-class and role, on how to look up the major code of a student in the Student Information System. Not to mention the complexities added by the segmented processed created by campus-code, classification, and don’t get me started on the physical complexities of which office processes which part of each process. Attempting to help departmental advisors, chairs and deans over the years, it is clear there is no university onboarding to their roles either. It can be frustrating to navigate university policy and systems without a good mentor. Some of them have succession planning and good mentors to their new roles and some are thrown into the deep end of the pool. I spent a lot of my resources trying to point individuals to university source like catalog and processes.

Within these university driven, produced, and maintained training programs, I believe it is very important to Start with Why! In the words of Simon Sinek, people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it. When there is a clear vision of why we do what we do, then everyone can align accordingly.

I think this university wide innovation would provide an opportunity for a unified message about the campus “why” would provide new members to our community and opportunity to buy-in.

For our student body, from undergraduates to doctoral students, I believe that the University should invest in a “How To” resource or course explaining how to navigate the systems and procedures. With staff and administrators able to have this single resource every time someone needs to know there is a link/module available to share or review together.

A university website, a link to a video, text, and audio option would provide access to all potential and LU students. This could be a single links page or an organized public facing learning management system with modules and embedded resources. With staff and administrators able to have this single resource every time someone needs to know there is a link/module available to share or review together.

This is true for every one of our areas. If a student doesn’t know their student account ID or password, they are locked out and frustrated. Video, text, and audio resources could help guide students calmly through the process. Many of our offices have templates and guides and we do our best, but I feel this is a great opportunity to show our why in action by helping our students and staff have unified resources and information to reduce frustration and errors, cost and enrollments.

Implement 4DX as led measures will give lag/yield measures. Requirements, standards, documentation, deadlines. Expectations that understand why students need to show the initiatives and ownership of these responsibilities while we also ensure that every team member from student-staff to executive administration know why we do what we do and why it matters so much.

Personal, Reflecting

Happy 2025!


Reflecting on another year in the records books and looking forward with intention for the year ahead. I find myself fantasizing in my head about how I’ll return, call a staff meeting, and once again authentically attempt to share my vision, my innovation, and my heart for the service-work we do daily.

Spending winter break decluttering, organizing, and prioritizing how I plan to spend 2026. Realizing same goes for my professional outlook too.

May you have a cozy and warm holiday, surrounded by love. See you next year!

Growth, Personal

Step 1: Stop Adult Bullying


Improve office culture by asking everyone to create a healthy work environment by their commitment to stop back biting (aka adult bullying).

How to start changing an unhealthy work environment | Glenn D. Rolfsen | TEDxOslo. YouTube/TEDx Talks. (2016, May 2). https://youtu.be/eYLb7WUtYt8?si=5leyYVXZirxy2gs5

Quotes and paraphrasing from Glenn D. Rolfsen

Next time someone comes to you with information about someone else who is not present, use Socrates “Triple Filter Test,” by first asking them the following:

  1. Do you know that this piece of information is true?
  2. Are you going to tell me something good about this person?
  3. Is the information you want to tell me useful?

How to implement change

Gather the group and ask the following questions:

  1. Do you feel that this is an unhealth work environment?
    • Agree/Disagree
  2. Define back-biting and asking, do you believe that back biting happens here?
    • Explain this triple filter test.
  3. Ask everyone if they would like to work in a healthy work environment, where there is no back biting?

Action steps

  • Invite those who would like to join you in changing the unhealth work environment to sign up for a six-month project where they agree to ask these three questions before entertaining any commentary about another member of their team, colleagues at their workplace, even challenge themselves to carry this practice home to friends and family members.
  • Frame the agreement and post it in a visible place as a reminder to everyone of their commitment to change our workplace into a healthy work environment.
  • Have weekly check ins asking, How are we doing with [_____ project title?]” Helping to hold one another accountable and commit to stop talking negatively about [____ insert person, group, or issue].

Assessment

In six months, ask the change questions again. Additionally, review leave requests and productivity measures. Did sick leave requests decrease? Did productivity and workplace satisfaction increase?

Growth, Personal

Striving to be a better leader


Home, sick and self-reflecting.

Simon Sinek always has great advice when I’m feeling lost at sea.

  1. Go after the things you want.
  2. Take care of each other.
  3. Be last to speak.
  4. Take accountability of your actions.
  5. Be humble and grateful.

Quotes and paraphrase’s from Simon Sinek.

Simon Sinek’s Advice Will Leave You SPEECHLESS 2.0 (MUST WATCH). YouTube/Alpha Mentors. (2024, December 8). https://youtu.be/vCIu7Ja_TE0?si=uVt1Kvnyt43zdsrU
Personal, Professional

Passion


I have determined that either I’m a really sick individual or I just really have a passion for helping people. We are in the think of wild wild west, students are being admitted as quickly as students are dropping. We are flooded with status updates, transcript blind-sides and full blown scheduling mayham.

I have come home smiling ear to ear each and every night of walk-in advising chaos. I am in my passion. I am helping students and supporting advisors. THIS IS MY JAM!

I am using this opportunity to teach advisors so many things, teaching students so many things, pointing out so many annoying aspects of our world to outsides (culture change), and generally just “putting my finger in the dam” wherever the need pops up.

I am happier than I have been in months! I need this!

Personal

Advocating Mediator


I am an advocating mediator. My entire life, I have found myself in the middle of relationships, situations, or interdepartmental challenges as the person who sees both sides and advocates for a solution.

  • Question: Should we open calendars for late appointments?
  • Answer: Yes
    • Advocating-mediator: Agreed 100%, let me talk to the leadership team about were we can move everyone’s next day’s appointment prep time so that mistakes aren’t made and our customers aren’t angry about same day cancelations.
    • Leadership team, we need to ensure our teams have adequate time to review student records and resolve transcript, hold, schedule errors, etc., while also making sure that the last appointment of the day is reserved for high school seniors needing advising after school.
    • Collaborative discussion about the functions and features of the advising platform and effective solution of setting new availabilities for that last appointment slot to be only for the incoming cohort. Continued discussions on where best to move next day appointment prep so that team members can focus on the task while avoiding overtime. Some teams want to leave it up to individuals, and others want to standardize it. Observations were made about leadership teams’ allotted work time, which is also currently at the end of the day. Continued discussions of equity across the unit and the need for uniformity due to stakeholder meetings across campus left the final decision about where to move next-day prep and team lead work time.

My whole life, I have examined situations from multiple perspectives and genuinely tried to understand everyone’s perspective on the issue at hand.

For most of my professional life, this min-max, efficiency expert, admittedly type A professional personality type of always striving for more and for better, has been made to make me feel bad for being who I am.

I recognize that I push myself too hard, but I don’t push others too hard. I listen to those around me. I collaborate very well and am always willing to modify solutions that take all parties into consideration.

I admit that I am not willing to settle. I don’t think that is a bad thing. I have done so much research in my quest for knowledge about this amazingly beautiful human condition that makes us want to leave an impact.

For someone like myself who has so much personal emotional baggage, striving to do more, be more, and give more is a testament, not a detriment.


I don’t know how to make people realize they can trust me. I work so very hard to be kind, caring, and giving. I tell all team members and leaders how much I see and appreciate their strengths and hard work. They are the most caring bunch of people I have ever known. I have some strong personalities to balance, and every single one is just absolutely passionate about the work they do and the impact we have on students’ lives. I respect that and fight for them all daily.


I know I’m not alone. Every middle manager is trying to meet the administration’s demands while hearing and addressing the needs of front-line workers.

I believe I have proven that I am always striving for solutions that allow both goals and initiatives to be met with that 80/20 mindset of doing everything by the established policies 80% of the time, recognizing that at that final push finish line, hopefully, only 20% of the population will require so much extra effort across the whole campus.

The turnover rate and team morale plummet when they have to rework the same schedules repeatedly, as new information is gathered after the fact.

We were asked to find proactive ways to increase enrollment and provide valuable advising. We spent months discussing ways to do more outreach to these populations and connect them with the advising office.

We were asked to reduce backdated drops/refunds due to additional information sent by students well after enrollment (and often well after the semester start date). We determined that meeting with students in various formats (in-person, virtual, email) would allow students to alert advisors to pending/potential coursework, thereby allowing a first-semester schedule that avoided those course areas until additional transcripts, score reports, etc., could be received and processed by the admissions office.

We established a campaign with a built-in communication plan through the use of reminder nudges. Utilizing the advising platform’s appoint campaign feature, we can welcome incoming students to the institution by either routing them to a specialist to complete assessment requirements and then to advise or directly to advise when those requirements are satisfied.

Not wanting to miss any incoming contacts with our parent/student populations contacting the front desk until these campaigns get sent in one week, a call list was requested so that leadership could confirm and ensure students were added to advising invitations.


A. I just don’t know how to earn/establish trust both upline and downline.

B. I don’t want to keep apologizing for who I am because I believe I have proven my initiatives effective.


Where do I go from here? Are there advocating mediator positions in the world where all my personality characteristics and skills can be utilized and valued?

I have located one company that is 100% powered by the concept of Simon Sinek’s Why. I recently attended a professional conference and found a whole community college founded and functioning from it. I have been trying to build and establish this why culture by bringing choice, ownership, and voice to the advising unit, but I am really feeling overwhelmed at the moment by the amount of apathy and defeat surrounding me.

I can’t just mark time.

I won’t just march forward to my grave.

I have a life to live and blessings to give. I really hope that I can find ways to give them where I am, but I am willing to find other ways to utilize my gifts. I know in my heart of heart, given the right supportive environment, I can help bring positive change to workplace culture and efficiency.

Personal

Big, big, trouble!


Well, well, well… here we are – Six months later and I’ve become exactly what I never wanted to be… a eportfolio drop out. I swore I would be the exception to the rule and wouldn’t stop using my portfolio once I graduated. Yet… here I am.

What I am finding is that I stopped finding ways to make my portfolio work for me. I stopped utilizing it as a tool to make my work life more effective. I’ll let myself off the hook a bit since I have changed roles and focus quite a bit so the entire scope of my portfolio needs to change. Additionally, I am actively taking steps to implement several of my flipped advising ideas on my campus within our learning management system. However, I am in big, big, trouble with myself for not sticking with it.

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Contributions, 5320


Capstone Course

  • Fall 2023
  • Course Number: EDLD 5320
  • Course Title: Synthesis Digital Learn/Lead

Contributions to Learning and my Learning Community

The back of a yellow van is pictured travelling down a dessert roadway.

Crediting Core Group Members: Kelly Skillingberg, Shannon Bowles, and Rachel Hull.


I am giving myself a score of 99 out of 100

Wow, what a transformation from the first course in the program.

please reconsider and evaluate your work and grade with the same fairness as another student.”

March 11, 2022 paraphrased email from EDLD 5305 instructor

Here I am, emboldenly claiming 99 out of 100 for my contributions to my learning and the learning of my learning community. Who is this person I have become?

I know now what I didn’t know then. I know that my “assessment of/for/as learning” is mine to claim ownership over, too (Harapnuik, 2021). The ADL Program equipped me to take control of my learning journey, and I embraced it!

When I began the program, I didn’t understand how having a group would help me. I had always been a little better off on my own or a type A person who would prefer to do all the work to know it got completed.

This independence was also true of my professional life, now that I think about it. While I enjoyed collaborating with others at work, I would typically take the lead to ensure that none of us “got in trouble” for failing to meet expectations.

However, this program and the soul-searching reflection done throughout leave me knowing that I have given 100 percent effort toward my entire learning experience. I also have given 100 percent effort toward connecting with my learning cohort. I am not giving myself a perfect score because there is always room for improvement and more to learn.

The fantastic people in my collaboration group have shown me how much better my ideas and our experience can be if we work together.

My learning communities overlap so many periods and classes that I cannot limit my experience to a single learning community (though this one was top-notch because we have all evolved so much in our learning journey that we now “get it”) but instead try to approach each semester as my opportunity to support and guide my fellow learners in the learning journey.

I love connecting with new people, and weekly meetings are my jam! But I had to learn that they are not that for everyone. I had to adapt and learn to meet others when and where they were available. We have had so many chats and a few synchronous meetings. Still, the asynchronous ability to connect has significantly impacted my future innovation ideas.

Adding peer support is a transformative component of innovation in advising. I never imagined how learners could support one another in co-navigating a new experience. However, thanks to my experience with choice, ownership, and voice in this authentically significant learning environment (COVA + CSLE), I know firsthand that peer support and a shared experience can revolutionize a learning experience.


Key Contributions

  1. My learning community’s core group members have all done a fantastic job staying in touch throughout the semester. One evening, we were the only members of the course who attended the class call. What worked this semester was our continued commitment to learning as much as possible, improving our innovation ideas as much as possible, and getting as much as possible out of this last course in the ADL program.
  2.  Fortunately, Shannon, Kelly, and I have been in learning communities and have maintained ongoing chats over the last several semesters. Before this session began, we had an EDLD 5320 Capstone Community GroupMe started. We all did a great job sharing links to our works in progress for feedforward and periodically just checked in to see how we felt about our coursework and innovation ideas.
  3.  I completed an overwhelming number of revisions on my ePortfolio as a whole. I continually revised current coursework and previous courses/projects coursework as a part of the entire program synthesis process. It was amazing to see how much we have learned and evolved in such a short time.
  4.  I completed ALL of the course readings, videos, and supporting resources provided and actively sought additional resources to deepen my learning and improve my innovation.
  5.  I met the various course activity deadlines indicated in the calendar.

Supporting Contributions

  1. While our group maintained a well-balanced interaction, I took a leadership role by requesting and creating recurring Zoom meetings to chat about projects and our reflections throughout the course. I contributed to my classmates in class calls and discussions by answering questions and pointing to resources when applicable.
  2.  I contribute to my learning and the learning of my colleagues by participating in ALL activities.
  3.  I actively contributed to discussion posts with engaging and well-thought-out reflections.

Reference

Harapnuik, D. (2021, August 16). Assessment OF/FOR/AS learning. It’s About Learning. https://www.harapnuik.org/?page_id=8900

https://www.harapnuik.org/?page_id=8900